Boy oh boy.
Have you listened to Damon Lawner on The HIM & HER Show yet? This one is as HOT as it gets.
A little disclaimer: this is not an episode you listen to with kids in the car. This conversation takes a deep dive into sex, so if you’re on the reserved side, this may not be your cup of tea. That being said, if you’ve ever wondered a sex party is like, get ready to press play.
Damon Lawner, aka Father Damon, is is the founder of the “world’s most elite sex club” based in Los Angeles. In the episode Lauryn, Michael and Damon have an in-depth conversation about how to elevate your sex life, how to connect with your partner on a deeper level and what you can expect at one of his parties. And he REALLY walks you through the doors creating visuals and total play by play of what your evening might look like. They also discuss the importance of foreplay, he gives tips for the best sex of your life, and shares his point of view on love, connection, and finding the beautiful parts of a difficult life.
On that note, here are some of the key things we absorbed from the conversation.
Damon Lawner Episode Takeaways:
What Makes Sex The Best: Connection. Feeling a deep connection to your partner makes for amazing sex. Physical sexuality is great, but having a partner who you are deeply connected with on a spiritual level elevates your sex life.
How to Find Beauty in a Difficult Life: Life is a winding road, and everyone has different experiences whether those be positive or negative. The most important part of moving on is being able to see beauty in small moments and decide to move forward in a healthy way vs. remaining stuck on the negatives.
Reignite Your Sex Life: Foreplay is major here. It’s not just about the typical foreplay methods, but connected on a deeper level. Give your partner a massage, or do something that connects the both of you on a spiritual level, so when you finally do have sex it’s an intense experience.
OTHER TOPICS DISCUSSED:
What makes good sex
The importance of a spiritual connection
His experience being a cheater
How he began his sex club
His childhood & various neglect he experienced
How he reflects on being molested as a child
Finding beauty in the hard areas of life
How his life changed when he had children
BTS of a sex party
Tips for reigniting your sex life
Blowjob tips from a sex club owner
Be sure to listen to the whole episode because this one is WILD. Have you have been to a sex party? We’ve been hearing so much about them, it’s almost like it’s the latest and greatest thing to do. Let us know everything below as well as your favorite part of the episode.
x, The Skinny Confidential team
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